Wednesday, April 26, 2017

pretty uniform

Yesterday,son took the new uniforms back home.I was surprised to see how pretty they were!Good style and good quality,cheap oakley sunglasses, the best I have seen.We bought two summer suits in order to change wearing everyday.He likes them very much and washed them first by himself in the washing-machine.Even one suit after one suit,he said he did this not to put into wrong pairs.Such a careful and track-minded boy!His school works so timely,send out uniforms so quickly and arranges everything so reasonably.This early morning,it rained heavily,but now shines much.
Son has just come back from the school and told me they finished the exercise perform,and he was the leader in front of the boys.hh,I am so happy and know how careful he always is at school.
Son looks a bit different in uniform,of course,gave me a feeling of grown!
Son has more new friends,so happy for him,new students,new teacher,new school,new studying life and new mood!
I am expecting son to get more changes in the new school,to be independent,to have his own opinions and to be mature.
I hope son needs me less and less,cheap jerseys, yeah,he did.
Then I will get less worried when he learns how to pretect himself and adapt to everything around him.

the thirteenth wedding anniversary

The moment husband entered the gate to give me the flowers,cheap replica oakleys, I realised today was a specially day for us.I am so ashamed that I almost forgot the date of our marriage.He said sorry to me because of preparing nothing else.He had planned to make nice dishes for us,but only bought some,for too tired.

I told him it was enough,he could remember the day.
Each of  us have been so busy and tired these days,even he started to go out to work at midnight several times.His cold hasn't got completely well.hh,I caught a light cold as well.And maybe it was my classes of today that made me sweat to feel much better.
Son heard such a day and told me he would make orange for me.He worked so hard beside the flowers,wholesale nfl jerseys, hh,Husband said that I was the happiest one in our family,and he was the second.
"And I?"son asked.
"You the especially most happiest!"
We laughed!

I know that my world gets smaller and smaller,
less and less makes me interested in,I know I can't change anything,even I don't wanna do.
Spending such days,one lifetime isn't enough for me.

It's about four weeks since we began the new term.Son loves such new days so much,cheap nfl hats, and gets up very early to go to school by himself happily.Slowly.I don't worry too much.We adapt to everything that time gives us.

good afternoons

So happy to have downloaded QQspace just now.It's a pity that I didn't know it before.Sitting in the office and doing what I like,cheap nfl jerseys, nobody can disturb me.Except for my two English classes a day,I have all the rest time to read.The whole afternoon,nothing worries me,try to have a completely quiet heart.Anything is away from me,anybody is not in my eyes.After reading,expect to go home.I love afternoons!
Although that awful mouth in the same office,it's a good chance for me to shut up,and go on reading books.Hate hearing her laughters,so terrible.That's a good thing to break away from such an ugly person ,I will never need to force myself to be close to her as before.For so many years,it's really a good chance to separate from her.I think I am waiting for a fight,I even expect it to come quickly.To say the truth,to be a honest person,so nothing to fear,to face everyone without a mask.Maybe it's a bit hard for others to accept at the beginning.Yet,cheap snapbacks, I can sure that only true man can be long,and only true words can walk ahead.

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

You could be a violin for making music or being a doorstop

One month ago, I had dinner with one former college neighbor, Meredith, a lovely Aussie girl, who is teaching Spanish at Uni.

But that didn’t surprise me until now I am starting English writing, and then I asked her if she had published any Spanish Articles. “Yes.” She said:"Ihad some academic ones.” I was really admired her. Especially when I realized that she’s having a position in teaching Spanish after completing her Doctor’s Degree major in Spanish which was not that easy for an Aussie as there are so many native Spanish speakers in Australia.

I was very curious: “How many years you have learnt Spanish?” “Around 10 years.” “Wow, you awesome.” Just think about I have been studying English for so many years, replica oakley sunglasses, I haven’t published any articles. That got my attention, I continued the topic: “How would you think about learn Spanish, that’s very rare in Australia.” “I just love it, I love Spanish people, I enjoy talking with them, you know, my mathematics was horrible.”

“Have you worried about finding a job in the future the time you started learning Spanish.” “No, not really” “I just find it really fun, that’s all.”

“Cool, you are a lucky one as you are doing a job you love.” “Yes, I think so. I love making friends with students, I love reading their writing, which was really funny, that fascinated me when they made mistakes.” “Wow, I wish I could be like you.”

I got a clue that she didn’t study mathematics kind of subjects she hates; she chose the one she’s passionate about. I knew every year, she would travelling in Spanish Countries with the money she earned from doing part time job, but she’s not that rich type person, she's sharing a house with someone else, she had never spent money buying luxury stuff, even she spent little money on her clothes. I recon she’s such a friendly and easy-going person, she used to making great effort in talking Spain with people in Australia. She’s the happiest girl I’ve met so far, she’s spending every single minute doing the things she loves.

Just think about in China, most students have been learning English for more than 10 years, mainly, they are struggling in passing the exams. Even in Australia, most Chinese stay with friends who communicate with Chinese every day. Not many people are really cared about English. They learn English just for a task, once got a degree, that’s over, which included me; I just began English writing 2 months ago.

We really should ask why we do things before we getting started, if it is only for a degree (Master’s or Doctor’s) just for show off or finding a position we don’t enjoy, that would be waste of time, not worth it. Because if we don’t like it from inner heart, it won’t last long, we will return all of them to the teacher in the end.

Sometimes a degree does not really matters for being who you are. I have talked about TSF organizer in my previous blogs, nfl jerseys cheap, a very handsome guy, Jai before. In fact, I am more interested in how he’s getting his business started.

He was born in Australia a poor family with first generation his parents immigrating from Philippine. Therefore, no one really cared about his study. As a result, he was not lucky enough to be high-educated. His parents used to put him with his sisters to learn dance, it’s not for his talent, just because his parents wanna get rid of him for a while, so that they could have spare time do their own things.

Every day when he finished work at call centre, he would go together with other 3 friends dancing outside which was very close to Melbourne city. With the salsa music turning on, he enjoyed dance so much as there’s no body watching. Gradually, there were 1 people added in, then 2, 3, 4, 20 and 30... In the end, there’s no space for them dance outside at all.

Wow, how could it be so popular? He was really excited, then his talent developed by starting his own business, renting a dance hall, he taught 1 hour free lesson for the beginners, and charged very little money for 1.5. Once when students moved to level 2, the fee will be a little bit increase, but it’s affordable. Mainly, it’s for fun, and encouraged more people get involved.

Now his TSF salsa foundation is becoming very popular in Melbourne, most Uni Students and Office professionals in CBD would like join him after work. It has bought huge benefits to the society. He has been interviewed for making movies sometimes, he’s getting famous.

He’s doing his business with his heart, he’s such a people person, as he was born poor, he knows how to treat others like friends with smiling face all the time, generous, warm-hearted by organizing donation to the poor people, having birth parties, cheap hats, Christmas theme parties for people who have no family around.. Sure thing, his business being so successful, and he can afford to buy a really nice car and a house in good area, and he had holiday in Hawaii just a month ago, even people who got a Uni degree couldn’t compete with him, he’s a typical guy who’s sought after by the most young, pretty girls from the Uni.

I can tell that he’s living in a fantasy world with so much satisfaction; he said he was so lucky to live in a life he never thought about, it was not even in his dream.

That’s the dream life everyone’s pursuing, being successful, it’s not only about a job which you can earn money, but consume your heart. It’s a work even you don’t get paid, you still enjoy doing.

These two are special cases, in real life, the majorities are not that get involved in their jobs, they are easily getting bored for doing a repetitive job day in and day out, they could be count down for how many hours left so that they can finish work being home early. They are lazy, they are being rude because they are not get motivated from the job, they complain, they gossip, they buy lottery for the expectation of winning a big money, so that one day they don’t have to attend work.

Therefore making music or being doorstops, it’s all up to you, it doesn't matter where you live, and it all depends on your mind. If you wanna a fulfilled life, then start doing which fits you most, then one day, you might be 1 of them, and I wish I could be like them too.

Give and share

It is quite often that we are asked to do somebody else a favor because he or she is needed for help. Usually it is just that normal. We sometimes do have some troubles and no one else can circumvent difficulties.

Some guys will come out to say and ask again and again for help. Of many questions they inquire, actually, nfl jerseys china, I do not read any troublesome things at all. To be honest, many things we can just resort to online searching. Though Google is not permitted to access, we can have some other search engines to look for what we want. As a matter of fact, the internet is a gigantic treasure as in an encyclopedia with enormous volumes of knowledge.

Just several days ago, a friend wanted me to help him explain a file sent into my inbox. When I opened it after work, I found it was an electronic voucher. It has specific introduction of the time, place and announcements with full indication. I told him it was a voucher and more details that he could just follow the introduction. Actually I knew he would have known it by looking up dictionary and read the main idea. In fact his hours of waiting are enough for him to conduct the study. And I also knew my reply did not cater to his satisfaction since he wanted me to give him a Chinese version. Looking up those unfamiliar words do not cost much time, cheap Oakley sunglasses, and it is not a long article which requires a lot energy and time.

I can be sure most of us do meet that kind of people who just want all of those things freely as if we are doomed to be volunteers. I am the kind of one who is willing to help. Usually I do not directly give out the answer but guide the guy who wants to solve problems. By doing so, it will let the guy knows how to figure out a problem on his own. Next time when he meets that issue, he won’t feel it hard to tackle that. While, most of those guys just do not have that patience, they’d rather say: “Hey, just give me the answer,” “Can you help to translate this paragraph?” “I have a listening material, would you mind transferring it into words, since I cannot dictate it well.” or “Can you just tell me how to invest the money.” Sorry, I am not the god with that patience to solve all the petty trifles. I am not hired to solve problems.

When those guys are refused out of content expectation, some of them would even say bad words. I can only understand that is really how weak the relation is and those ones are not deserved to be on lists. I always think if I am given help; I will be with great appreciation. If not, cheap nfl hats, I still feel fine since I can do it by myself.

Not everybody is free at all the time and not everybody is obliged to offer the free favor. Be grateful to thank those who have helped us ever. A mutual understanding and respect lights up glory.

Sunday, April 16, 2017

Why do you want to learn English and what makes you to insist on learning?

Until now, I have insisted on English learning for about 98 days. During these days I’ve spent 190 hours in total, which means that I’ve learn at an average of two hours a day.  As a working mother who has a nine-year old boy and a husband who is always busy, cheap mlb hats, I have to spend most of my time in work and family. These two hours are pretty much all I could have for myself.

So here’s the question I’ve been asked a lot lately: “Why do you want to learn English?” An interesting question. Honestly, I don’t have any strong motive for that. My job requires me to do some English writing once in a while, like reports, emails, or newsletters.  However English writing has never been my problem, and I could handle them with much ease.  Besides that I don’t have many opportunities to use English. See, no pressures here at all. Therefore for many years, I’ve accepted the fact that as an English major, my oral English sucks. Really sucks, I mean it. Whenever coming to speak English, I become tongue tied. Like there is a magic switch existed, my mind just shut down and went into a total blank.  But I comfort myself by saying: “You are just shy. You don’t even speak much in Chinese. So what’s the big deal?” We can always find an excuse if we want, aren't we. However, lie is just a lie, no matter how comforting it is. I am an insecurity freak. There is always an inner voice whispering: “You have only one life to live. As a human being, you have to have something you could be proud of, something you are really good at. But what do you have?”  English seems to be the only one left. But it’s not something that I could boast of. If someone says: “Oh, your English is good.” The only reply I could give is “But my oral English is terrible.” How desperately I want to change that. Then finally I decided to give it a try. I took a course from an English Learning APP.  I’ve surprised that I could have persevered for so long.
I guess here I must underline the importance of the team spirit. I joined in several WeChat groups and got to learn several incredible learning partners. They all have a busy life, cheap oakley sunglasses, fully occupied with work, family and social activities. However they all do their best to finish their daily learning—never stop for a single day.  G is like me, also a working mother. Her boy is two year old. We all know how demanding a two-year-old could be. So it’s pretty impossible for her to learn at night. To finish her learning, she gets up around 4 o’clock in the morning. And when she has some free time at work, she goes to the toilet to learn English. Can you imagine that? She averages more time at learning than I do and always stay at top 5 in class (out of 227 students). M is a working father who has a busy job. He usually stays late to learn and has also been remained at top 5. There is only once he failed to do his homework, precisely not failed, just two minutes late. That’s the day when his mother-in-law was ill and went into the hospital. C is a girl who loves travelling. Travelling is also the major purpose for her to learn English. Just like me, she is good at English in other ways except speaking. Once she and some friends went for an international trip, while her friends already used body languages and some broken sentences to express themselves clearly, she had still been struggling in mind to organize the words into sentence. After the trip, their friends said jokingly: “We’ve heard that your English was good!” Just imagine how she felt at that time! I fully understand, because I had been there--many times. To have enough learning for learning, cheap nfl jerseys, she controls her shyness and study during her commute to work in the street---she walks to the office.  Anyway, with teammates like them, any excuse is just a lame excuse.

Now I have made some improvements. I’ll still try and see what I could achieve in the future.  Perhaps one day I could say it without any hesitation: “ Yes, I am good at English.”

idle on line

I have not opened my computer for several days. Today when i opened then i do not know what i should do.
Without any aims and intention. 
Days before i am learning the coradraw but it is a little difficult for me. wholesale jerseysSo i did not learn these days. Now when i  open the computer with nothing to do.
I do not know what should i do now.It is so terrible.

seeking tranquality

   I do not know if you have the same experience with me.
    You supposedly had a crush on sb who is impossible for you, sorry, cheap jerseys, do not tell me not being brave so you miss out to your love. Cau the reality is not easily to be solved by that simply theory. I do not want to further it, cau too many objects, barriers and uncertainty between all of them.
    And a lot of done, look through and enomorous pain leads to put down or gradually release the illusion and face the fact with normal.
    Of course, you and the guy share the Wechat friendcycle, cheap snapback hats, so it makes to connect a little bit in some way but that is just a window to see what each other up to and let it be on your part is what you have to face with.
    That is the only he may see incidentally and found what it of insterest to him to touch your window to connect you.
    Just that only unintentional light to manager to blaze the past calm down and ignite your memory. How ridiculous you are and that is why i am writing this essay to smooth out all the creases created by that bolster.
    What i could get is there is something strange like peculiar relationship that keep familiar even through you two no contact long time but still could no hesitate to contact with easygoing tone. And he seems to have an eye on you, fake oakley sunglasses, ok, it is normal after reading so many essay your write.
   So i have figured out the fact and go back my track right now and good night all.

Friday, April 14, 2017

Life decision

This fall is a bit cold, in everytime of Autumn, the most scenery you would think is the ripe fruit with so much sweetness and happiness. Yes, I can't deny that Autumn is a harvest season, but there might exist someone like me who looked back of their life and found nothing they have achieved, it is just another person of tasting the failure.

As we can see the success never comes easy, the first thing is that how you define success. When it comes to me, success in my mind is a figure of account of money. So how do you define your success? And in this fall,cheap jerseys, where do you stand now? Happy or sad? Although we can not get the past time back, we do have the energy to build a warm world of our own.

So long as we do not give it up, we can make it happen of our dreams.

Online Shoppig

  With the rapid development of our modern society, shopping online is more acceptable by us and more convenient for us. Nowadays it always becomes the topic of our conversations.
  Many people are totally in favor of this because of its convenience, variety and lower power. On the one hand, we can easily what we want without going outside. On the other hand, we are able to get various products from all over our country also all over the word. However, cheap oakley sunglasses, some people do not prefer online shopping for the reasons listed below. To begin with, the qualities of those online cannot be sure. What's worse, it may not so safe to trade online. We may meet some trouble issues.
  From my point of view, we should have a clear mind on shopping online. It is high time that we could not ignore the problems when we enjoy its convenience.By the way, have you prepared for the DOUBLE 11?

My worst teacher

We met many teachers in the course of our long learning career while time passed away. Each of them is not identical, and some of them gave me knowledge and principle, the others may give me an unforgettable experience.
Though the one you hate who hurts you ever, he is still a special person which one lives in your heart with a unique way.
My worst teacher is a man of middle-sized and medium height with swarthy square face, always wear brunet unsightly clothes and only a pair of shoes. It is all said that beauty is the eye of the beholder. On the contrary, provided that you loathe dislike a person and  loathe all the things about he. The most I can't stand is he always calls our name in class, like stupid swine and so on. Meanwhile,cheap nfl hats, we can't understand his thoughts. The most terrible is that he passed all the buck to us when we failed to work out the math problem and lashed our hands with branches. As far as I can see, it is too painful to stand so that I remembered the whole memory till now. Differently I not hate him at all now.

Get together with my friends

One of my friends Ms Yang is going to retire; all of our friends were invited by her at the last night in Paulaner German restaurant for the celebration.
These are the people we worked together when the preopening set up at Kempinski in Beijing, Ms Yang was just standing next to me in the picture,cheap snapbacks, she was the one of Finance Manager we knew each other when we were in Holiday Inn LiDu, how close we are you can image, so almost the half life we were working together and sharing the happy and unhappy things no matter in the work or in the family, She helped me a lots in my career I mentioned it at the last night to her honestly, if she did not the nomination me from cost control to the payroll office and then to the General Ledger, I will definitely not be promoted to AFC, I should thank her strongly, so one bottle of beer stands my heart for her deeply.
As the plan we met each other in Ms Yang’s office at 5pm, I came to the office one hour early, just wanted to see my previous colleagues,cheap replica oakleys, the purchasing office was the first office I must to see my dear sister Cao who was the purchasing manager here for many years ago. And visited my lovely Kathy in AR and Vicky in GL, hugs and shaking hands one after another.
Another two girls in the picture were my staffs in the same office before and now they have been the Financial Controller in other hotel. Other two guys were still in the company with stable works, and one taller guy has been to a boss in internet work field, sounds everyone is not bad working condition so far,
As the time goes by, we are becoming older, even I left the company more than two years, but recalled back the situations like happened at the yesterday, the laughing and talking is the same feeling before in between, wholesale nfl jerseys,don’t have any wariness to speak out the secrets which we never knew before why was that and realized some answers. What’s why the meeting was till the last night the restaurant closed. We were really have a nice evening and we said we are going to have such party with more staffs in the future.

Typhoon days

It is a typhoon day. It is rainning outside. The mountain side like covered with moist when I glance outside from the window.

The office building don't have many working people as usual because a lot of companies are close due to the effect of the typhoon. Our company belongs to those which don't follow up the called from the government.  Since the typhoon is landing at 1 o'clock pm.  When we get up in the morning, cheap nfl jerseys, the rain and wind is not very heavy and strong.

I got to known that my home town Shantou is more affected this time. I hope that the typhoon can pass soon. The working and living life can be as normal too.

Staying at home and drinking tea silently when it is raining dog and cat outside. It would be enjoyable too.

In the end, I hope every body takes care self at the extrem weather days.